I understand your opinion but try not to let ions dictate your decisions when it comes to family decisions if finance is an issue. I came to Spain when my son was 10 and really regret it. We managed simply because we had UK house with no mortgage which could be rented and brought in enough money to supplement our jobs. There is no possible way we could have stayed here simply on our Spanish wages.My wife was Spanish speaking so that was vital. Basically my son struggled a lot. It takes years to learn the language for children and total nonsense to say they pick it up in months. By the time they have enough just to follow classes they have missed years and never really catch up. My wife put in hours and hours of work helping my son memorize Spanish stuff for exams. By the time he was 16 he was doing well in the Spanish school but he knew that he had to study in English in order to get to a level to go to university so we transferred him to a bilingual school. He managed to get all his A levels and is at university. However all this was done because we had other sources of income than wages. We still struggle a bit now as self employment is 300€ a month and my wife barely makes 1200€ a month ( and that is as a government 112 translator being a available 7 days a week 24 hours!!!)
Hi,
Thank you for sharing your story. I wanted to read about those real experiences so again - thank you.
I'm not led by ion. If I see that it will not work, I let it go despite my dream of living in a sunny country.
In this case, my mind controls my heart. You need to be pragmatic.
Living almost 20 years in the UK was quite comfortable.
However, lots of things changed - especially the weather.
I found the UK weather different now. Most of the year grey skies, lots of rain, and flooding.
You have 4 months of "normal" weather and the rest of the year - hiding in the house.
Apart from that it is mentally exhausting.
Quality of food - I don't want to even go there.
NHS - the same.
Traffic everywhere, increasing criminality, people thinking about shopping only,
lack of outdoor activities/not many mountains and forests, caves, aquaparks, ice skating rings,
sea - which is enormously cold or with of sewage...../
Well, as they say - you can't have everything.
But despite all this - I will always consider the UK as my second home and I'm grateful for many things here.
I just feel that there is now the time to start a new journey so hence these thoughts about relocating to the country where
we as a family can be most of the time outside.🌞
Best regards,
Jules